It is non-existent, that is “What it is”. There is no such thing as equal. God dealt the cards and one can only play the hand which they are dealt, regardless of the obstacles. Fair or unfair. The biggest “offenders” feel no shame, they know no guilt. They embrace only their own bigoted double standards. Asking someone to resolve problems that they not only perpetuate, but don’t even acknowledge, is a fruitless waste of your precious breath. You are either of a mind of equality or you are not. Few are persuaded to do an about face. Children of all races, creed and colors are not BORN haters. THEY ARE TAUGHT. Those thoughts and beliefs of inequity become their values, No matter how injurious they may be.
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